Hearing Loss and Communication
Gain Their Attention
One of the best things you can do to improve your communication with people with hearing loss is to make sure you have their attention first. By doing this you’ll ensure you have their attention and that they don’t miss any of the conversation. Some good ways to do this are to:
- Say their name before you start speaking.
- Touch them lightly on the hand or shoulder.
- Wait until anyone else speaking has finished to begin talking.
At the same time, make sure you also pay attention to them as they listen to you. If they look puzzled or unsure, they might be having trouble understanding something you said – in which case you can pause or ask if they understood everything you were saying.
Maintain Eye Contact
Another way to help encourage understanding is to maintain eye contact and keep yourself positioned correctly. You should always face the person with hearing loss as directly as possible, at a distance of no more than a few feet. This allows the other person to watch your facial expressions and body language easily, which in turn makes it easier to understand you.
Try not to position yourself at an angle, and don’t start conversations from another room or move around too much while talking. The only exception to this is when someone has better hearing in one ear than the other, in which case it’s usually better to position yourself on that side so they can hear you more easily.
Keep Your Face and Mouth Visible
Many people with hearing loss use lip reading to help their understanding. Unfortunately it’s easy to obstruct your face when talking or make it harder to read your lips. When you’re talking, make sure you:
- Avoid touching your face with your hands or positioning your hands in front of your face
- Avoid eating, chewing, or smoking while you speak. If you’re talking over a meal, make sure you finish your bite of food before you begin to speak again.
- Position yourself so the other person can easily see your face and mouth without having to strain.
In addition to enabling lip reading, these tips will also ensure your speech is clearer and easier to understand. You’ll also make it easier for the other person to take advantage of visual cues such as pauses in your speech and facial expressions.
Speak Normally & Naturally
One of the hardest things about communicating with someone with a hearing problem isadjusting your speech to compensate for their ability. You should never overcompensate for someone else’s hearing problems – doing so can seem insulting and can actually make you harder to understand. Instead, you should:
- Speak in your normal tone and at your normal volume. Try to speak distinctly, but don’t exaggerate your words or raise your voice.
- Try not to mumble. Mumbling both lowers the volume of your speech and reduces the movement of your lips, making you much harder to understand.
- Slow down your speech, but with pauses rather than slower talking. This gives the other person time to process your speech without being demeaning.
- Don’t exaggerate or overemphasize your mouth movements. This can make it harder to read your lips or facial expressions and it can also change the pronunciation of your speech.
- Don’t talk too rapidly or use sentences that are overly complex. Instead, try to speak simply and to make your ideas easy to comprehend.
Make The Conversation Easy to Follow
If your conversation is taking place in a group situation or is especially important, you’ll need to take a few extra steps to ensure they understand. One of the best things to do is adjust your conversation to be inclusive. You should:
- Acquaint your listener with the general topic or any important details at the start. Don’t trust that they’ll pick up on all the details themselves.
- Avoid changing topics suddenly – make sure you introduce your topic clearly so the person with hearing difficulty can contribute and understand.
- Take turns speaking and try to avoid interruptions. Tracking multiple speakers at once is difficult for anyone, but it’s even harder with a hearing disability.
Go Somewhere Quiet
When it’s possible, you should always try to reduce the level of background noisearound you before you start talking. This can help make your speech clearer and improve the other person’s ability to hear (or the function of their hearing aids). For instance, you can:
- Move away from crowds of people to a quieter or calmer area.
- Turn off the radio, television, or other sources of noise or speech in your vicinity.
- In public places, choose to converse in an area away from sources of noisesuch as kitchens, server stations, music, traffic, or construction areas.
- Be aware when the noise around you is changing or distorted. Even when someone can hear you it’s not always easy to understand your words.
Go Somewhere Bright
In addition to choosing a quiet location, it’s also beneficial to choose one with good lighting. This makes it easier for the other person to see your face and watch your lips and expressions. Make sure you:
- Try to position yourself so light falls on your face and not behind you. Lighting from the back can silhouette you and make your face hard to see.
- Try to go out earlier so you can take advantage of natural sunlight instead of having to rely on dim interior lighting.
- Stay close to the other person, especially in situations where you can’t control the lighting. Being closer can often make up for dim lighting.
Rephrase – Don’t Repeat
Occasionally, even if you follow these tips, the person you’re talking to will have trouble understanding something you said. In these cases, it’s important not to repeat yourself over and over. Instead, try the following:
- Find a different way of stating your ideas. Rephrasing your statement gives the other person a chance to understand your speech naturally, without you repeating yourself.
- Avoid shouting or saying the same thing louder. Again, this can actually make it harder to understand what you’re saying even if you increase the volume.
- Give them an opportunity to ask questions or clarify your ideas before moving on. Sometimes they’ll have an idea of what you were trying to say but might miss specific details.
- Don’t be insulted if they miss something and ask you to repeat yourself.
Use Writing When Possible
If you’re discussing something important or you think the other person didn’t understand everything you needed them to, try to use writing or other visual means to convey your information. Send a text message, email, or picture after your conversation to ensure your points weren’t lost.
Communicating with someone with hearing problems doesn’t have to be difficult. Along with the above strategies, you can also encourage your loved one to seek help at a qualified audiology clinic such as our own. At Audio Recovery we’ve helped thousands of Oklahomans improve their hearing and enjoy life more. Call us today at 405-949-1906 to schedule an appointment or visit our Facebook page for more hearing tips and advice.